As children mature into young adulthood, they become preoccupied with finding their Mr or Miss Right in life, unfortunately we do a very poor job of choosing our dream mate for life. When choosing our mate we become very superficial, because we're looking at the package on the outside, and this is the factor that cause us to make snap decisions. We like what we see, because it's pleasant to the eyes, so we choose him or her for their great looks; and hadn't thought about the character of the person, at all. when you're young , you put more emphasises on looks than we do, on whether or not the person has a good heart , or if they're loving and trust worthy. This type of choosing is totally silly and the benefits you reap will hardly worth boasting or bragging about. This is the reason, I think we should trust God for choosing our life time mate because God don't choose trash and he doesn't deal in mess. When in search of a perfect mat for ourselves, we want only the best that God has to offer us. So, we make sure we specify to God what you truly want in a mate, although , he already knows exactly what you want and need in a mate. Sometimes we choose poorly, which causes us a lot of heart break, pain and eventually a divorce, because of the poor choices we made for a life time mate. When God chooses for us, there's a godly guarantee that we will have the best life time mate that God has chosen especially just for us.. We don't have to worry about whether it's going to work out or not because we know our Lord doesn't make mistake of any kind. So, Instead of going through a life of impatience, and trying to choose the right life time mate for us, let's trust God to do the picking and choosing of a perfect mate just for us. When God pick your mate, we know he or she is a winner in life and in love because God picked them for us. So, if you want a mate chosen just for you, ask God and he will send you a mate that you will love and cherish the rest of your days and you want have to worry about grounds for a divorce, because once God put someone together, no man can put asunder, you're joined together for life and eternity.